Regarding the matter of accompanying childbirth, it is still divided, some husbands are more suitable, and some are not suitable, so do you want your husband to accompany the birth

Since ancient times, childbirth has been a matter of life and death for women

However, at this time, pregnant mothers began to hesitate, because they may encounter some small embarrassments during childbirth, and they do not want to be seen by their husbands, such as:

1.

The internal examination is to put your hand into the vagina for examination, which may be a little painful and uncomfortable, but it is still relatively fast, and the pregnant mother will

2.

This operation is not only for the smooth delivery of the baby, but also for the mother herself, so there is no need to be shy and afraid, just follow the process

3.

Perineal skin is actually shaving pubic hair

4.

Therefore, we must listen to the guidance of the medical staff present during childbirth to ensure a smooth delivery

5.

These are the reasons why pregnant mothers are hesitant to let their husbands enter the delivery room and accompany the birth at close range

Some time ago, in the popular TV series "Dear Child", the heroine Fang Yinuo did not ask her husband Xiao Lu to enter the delivery room to accompany the birth
.

The painful husband in the delivery room was not accompanied, and when he saw Fang Yinuo urinating incontinence after giving birth, Xiao Lu showed a disgusted expression
.
Coupled with a series of things that happened before and after, their marriage finally came to an end
.

But there are also some couples, after the husband accompanied the whole process of childbirth, the feelings are better, the husband is more considerate of the wife's efforts, the wife is also grateful for the husband's thoughtfulness, and there is a lovely love crystal, and the family life is
more warm.

Therefore, on the matter of accompanying childbirth, it is still divided, some husbands are more suitable, and some are not suitable, so whether to accompany the husband to give birth, before giving birth, you must first communicate well with your husband
.

First of all, pay attention to the way you
communicate.

From pregnancy to childbirth, because the mother is the party involved in the whole process, it seems to have the most say, but the more this time, the more attention should be paid to listening
.

Unilateral "I think" may lead to unpleasantness between the two sides, and eventually evolve into a gap
in the heart.
Letting each other make judgments without any pressure is often the best option
.

Second, consider the specific situation
of the father-to-be.

The delivery room is different from ordinary bed accompaniment, and it is a considerable test
for the father.

Paternity is not only an "emotional intelligence" job, but also needs to cooperate with the doctor
when it comes to accompanying husbands not only to pay attention to and soothe the wife's emotions.

Before making a decision, check the physical and psychological condition of the expectant father, so as to avoid delaying the delivery process
of the pregnant mother.

If the father-to-be has poor psychological quality, or has blood sickness, serious heart disease, high blood pressure and other diseases, you must not force yourself
.

Wait patiently outside the delivery room, comfort and take care of your wife at the first time, you are still the hero in her heart!

The husband's accompaniment must be the greatest comfort and the best support
in the wife's heart.
If the result is good, naturally everyone is happy, everyone has experienced a "ghost door", and the feelings have grown by leaps and bounds; However, if the result is not good, it may even lead to the rupture of the relationship between the two parties, which is contrary to the original intention of letting the husband accompany the
birth.

Therefore, in the matter of accompanying childbirth, the two sides must communicate
well.

If you do a good job of adequate communication before the decision, you can avoid unnecessary gaps between the two sides, and you can also avoid a series of panics that may occur after the birth, and you can avoid the "bad consequences"
that may occur.

For example, if the husband has certain psychological or physical disorders after the birth, he should seek the help of a doctor in time to avoid laying hidden dangers
for future family life.

Having said all this, in fact, we should still look at the specific conditions of each family and decide whether to let the husband enter the delivery room to accompany the delivery
at close range.
I hope that every couple can be lucky to usher in the crystallization of love, and the family will be happy for a long time!